Father's day Talk

I was asked to speak in church on father's day last month. This is what I shared with our congregation:


Good Afternoon brothers and sisters,

I feel truly blessed to have the opportunity to speak this father’s day and to testify of Jesus Christ and of our Father in Heaven.

I have been blessed with great examples of fathers in my life. Today I would like to talk about 3 of the ad how their Christlike love for me changed my life.

1. I would like to begin with my own Father. I feel deep gratitude for my loving and hardworking father. He has always had a great attitude of hope towards life. I owe my sense of determination to him. He taught me by example that every goal I set can be attained with hard work and determination. One of the greatest goals I set for myself was to serve a full-time mission and return with honor. My father’s teaching of determination was what kept me from giving up on those hard days. My dad is not a member of the church, but He loves God, he serves Him to the best of his capacities and prays to Him. He trusts God. I know one day he will enjoy every blessing God has in store for Him.

God knew the challenges I would face and the difficulties I would have, and that is why He sent me a loving determined and hardworking father.

2. Another great blessing and example of a Father is my mission president. President N. has the purest and most Christlike love for all of his missionaries. His main goal for every one of his missionaries is to convert them to The Lord Jesus Christ. He has this same goal and focus for all of his children. He taught me by example how a father should treat his children, and how a husband should treat his wife.

God knew the challenges I would face and the difficulties I would have, and that is why I was called to a mission that was presided by a wonderful father.

3. Lastly I would like to speak about the greatest, most merciful and loving father and the focus of my talk today, our Father in Heaven. I testify of His reality, I testify of His mercy and I testify of His individual love for every single one of you.

Let me begin with reading the parable of the lost sheep first:

What man of you, having an hundred sheep, if he lose one of them, doth not leave the ninety and nine in the wilderness, and go after that which is lost, until he find it? And when he hath found it, he layeth it on his shoulders, rejoicing.

And when he cometh home, he calleth together his friends and neighbours, saying unto them, Rejoice with me; for I have found my sheep which was lost.

New Testament, King James Version, Luke 15:4-6

I would like to share with you one of the most sacred experiences I had on my mission that revealed to me just how much God knows me and made the parable of the lost sheep become real to me.

My companions and I had the opportunity to take some of our investigators to the Phoenix Arizona temple open house. It was an incredible and awe-inspiring experience. As we finished the tour and were walking away from the temple, I turned back to get one last look of this beautiful temple. As I saw the temple, I was overwhelmed with the spirit and it seemed like time stopped for a little while. In that moment the spirit whispered to me “I found you.” God wanted me to know that He found ME.

He wanted me to that He sent the missionaries to my home, that He had softened the hearts of my parents to allow me to me baptized when I was 12. He wanted me to know that He lowered the missionary age to allow me to serve a full-time mission.

He wanted me to know that He sought after me and that he found me.

Brothers and sisters, I testify that the God of this universe is the Father of our spirits.

God knew the challenges we would face and the difficulties we would have, He knew our weaknesses and our sins would bring us sorrow and that is why He sent us a Savior!

For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

I testify that Jesus is the Christ, the promised Messiah! I testify that He is the greatest gift our Father in Heaven has given us and we must receive Him as that gift.

I add my testimony to King Bejamin’s when He said:

And moreover, I say unto you, that there shall be no other name given nor any other way nor means whereby salvation can come unto the children of men, only in and through the name of Christ, the Lord Omnipotent.

Book of Mormon, Mosiah 3:17

I would like to finish with a quote from a Mormon message called “Earthly Father, Heavenly Father.” This is a father speaking about his children and about his family and how his relationship to them allows him to comprehend how God feels about him.

I work that they may grow. They trust so deeply. How I yearn to do the same. They see so little of how it all came to be--never questioning, only trusting. I will be their protector. I will be their gentle friend. I will be my wife's faithful husband. I am a father. I am also a son. And while I may not understand all that He does for me, I do know that all that I am and all that I have is because He's a father to me.

I now stand very aware of how it all came to be.

The video ends with the following quote from the quorum of the 12 apostles:

Of all the tittle of respect and honor and admiration that are given to deity, He has asked us to address Him as Father.

I testify that God is our Father and that He lives! I testify that Jesus is the Christ, the Living Son of the Living God and because He lives, we too shall live forever.

In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

Here are some links to scriptures I used and the video I quoted:

Mormon message, "Earthly Father, Heavenly Father": https://www.lds.org/media-library/video/2013-01-002-earthly-father-heavenly-father?lang=eng

Bible Scriptures: https://www.lds.org/scriptures/bible?lang=eng

Book of Mormon Scriptures: https://www.lds.org/scriptures/bofm?lang=eng

The light will come

What a beautiful lesson the sunrise teaches us every single day. It doesn't matter how dark the night is, we have the certainty that the sun will come up in the morning.

While speaking about seeking God's love in times of trial, President Uchtdorf says: "The very moment you begin to seek your Heavenly Father, in that moment, the hope of His light will begin to awaken, enliven, and ennoble your soul. The darkness may not dissipate all at once, but as surely as night always gives way to dawn, the light will come." Just like we can trust in the promise that the night will give way to dawn and that the dark has to yield to light, we can also trust the promise of our Father when He says: "I will not fail thee, nor forsake thee." (Deuteronomy 31:6)

There have been moments in my life, and I am sure there will be more, when I physically felt like I was engulfed in darkness. I saw no way out of a trial. I lost hope for the improvement of my situation. I felt complete desperation and longing for it to be over. Discouragement was then followed by anger. I wondered: why me? Why can't I catch a break? I would cry and ask God: "Father, you know the trials I have gone through, you know that I can't handle any more. If you know this, why do they keep coming?"

I felt much like what President Monson describes in one of his talks:
"When the pathway of life takes a cruel turn, there is the temptation to ask the question “Why me?” At times there appears to be no light at the end of the tunnel, no sunrise to end the night’s darkness. We feel encompassed by the disappointment of shattered dreams and the despair of vanished hopes. We join in uttering the biblical plea, “Is there no balm in Gilead?” We feel abandoned, heartbroken, alone. We are inclined to view our own personal misfortunes through the distorted prism of pessimism. We become impatient for a solution to our problems, forgetting that frequently the heavenly virtue of patience is required." (General Conference October 2013)

When either I or my husband are faced with a trial, I am prompt to say and even promise "it will all be okay." I truly believe that. I believe that it will all be okay! No matter what trial, what tragedy, what illness, what news we receive, what catastrophe we face, etc. It truly will all be okay in the end! Why? How? Because "All that is unfair about life can be made right through the Atonement of Jesus Christ." (Preach my Gospel, Ch.3, Lesson 2)

The question might be posed: Why do bad things happen to good people?
To be completely honest, I don't know. But what I do know with all my heart and being is this: there is a God in Heaven that loves His children. Jesus is the Christ, the Living Son of the Living God. All things will be okay because of those two precious truths. It is hard for me to explain to each one of you who is reading this post how exactly these truths will make your trial "okay", but I know that if you ask God how the sacrifice of His Beloved Son will heal your wounded heart, He will make it known unto you.

Christ taught:
Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone?
Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent?
If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?
(Matthew 7:9-11)

I testify of the reality and the love of God. I proclaim that God lives and that Christ does too! They will guide us and help us through the darkness. Trust in Them. Allow Them to bear you up when you can no longer do so. "As surely as night always gives way to dawn, the light will come".



Sources and picture from lds.org

I too, am a beggar

The teaching of how we should respond to the poor and the beggar has been weighing heavily on my mind. I have studied this topic and it comes down to the following: As a disciple of Jesus Christ, I am to help the poor, the needy and the beggar because I too, am a beggar.

I stand with Elder Holland (general authority of the LDS church) when he says: “Now, lest I be accused of proposing quixotic global social programs or of endorsing panhandling as a growth industry, I reassure you that my reverence for principles of industry, thrift, self-reliance, and ambition is as strong as that of any man or woman alive.” I feel strongly about self-reliance and the duty we have to keep ourselves afloat, but in some circumstances that is not possible. Whether those circumstances are due to unwanted events or self-inflicted, it is our duty to help those in need if our means allow it.

King Benjamin from the Book of Mormon warns those that say: “The man has brought upon himself his misery; therefore I will stay my hand, and will not give unto him of my food, nor impart unto him of my substance that he may not suffer, for his punishments are just—But I say unto you, O man, whosoever doeth this the same hath great cause to repent; and except he repenteth of that which he hath done he perisheth forever, and hath no interest in the kingdom of God.”

Why would a prophet include this in his final teachings? Why would this record be preserved for us to read at this time? Could it be because our generation is facing poverty and so many of us are “staying our hand”? I feel gratitude for the following paragraph taken from a talk by Elder Holland that helped me understand why we cannot judge and not help the poor and the beggar.

Elder Holland responds to his rhetorical question: “so how might we ‘do what we can’? For one thing, we can, as King Benjamin taught, cease withholding our means because we see the poor as having brought their misery upon themselves. Perhaps some have created their own difficulties, but don’t the rest of us do exactly the same thing? Isn’t that why this compassionate ruler asks, “Are we not all beggars?” Don’t we all cry out for help and hope and answers to prayers? Don’t we all beg for forgiveness for mistakes we have made and troubles we have caused? Don’t we all implore that grace will compensate for our weaknesses, that mercy will triumph over justice at least in our case?”

I am always overwhelmed with emotion when I read that paragraph. I am filled with gratitude that mercy does trump over justice in my case every time. How grateful am I that when I beg for forgiveness, a loving and merciful Savior who knows I have put myself in this situation, that knows I have knowingly sinned, still forgives me. If we receive one of the greatest spiritual ‘gifts’, forgiveness, who are we to turn away those who beg for worldly ‘gifts’? “Little wonder that King Benjamin says we obtain a remission of our sins by pleading to God, who compassionately responds, but we retain a remission of our sins by compassionately responding to the poor who plead to us.” –Elder Holland

The way we should treat the poor, homeless and beggars comes down to how we should treat all people in general. The world-known philosopher Immanuel Kant taught that all human beings have dignity and that all humans must act in such a way that respects other’s dignity including our own. He used the relationship between “means” and “ends” to teach, in my opinion, one of the most inspired “rules” for how to treat others including ourselves. A “mean” is a step, something that is sometimes insignificant that leads you to complete an “end” or a goal. We see “means” as less important than the “ends”.

Kant says: “Act in such a way that you treat humanity, whether your own person or in the person of another, always at the same time as an end and never simply as a mean.” We are all important. We are all struggling in different ways, some more severely than others. When we are faced with whether or not to help someone in need, we must see that person not as another insignificant “mean” or step that we have to go through to reach our personal “end”, whatever that may be. We should help if our financial status allows us to.

Even if we were to rely solely on the teachings of a philosopher to decide how to react when we encounter beggars, it is evident that it is our moral duty to help if our needs permit. Those who have a testimony of Jesus Christ as their personal Savior know that we are all beggars, we all beg for the forgiveness of our own self-inflicted sins and we all hope that grace will triumph over justice because we are really sorry for what we have done. This principle taught by King Bejamin in Mosiah 4 has helped me deepen my testimony of my Savior Jesus Christ.

I am a beggar and will always be a beggar to my Savior. I am eternally grateful for a loving Savior that chooses to help me and forgive me. I want to be like Him and help those that beg in the worldly sense.

Baptism of Fire

I feel incredibly blessed for the knowledge I have received about this subject. I express my gratitude for my husband who is the one who spent years studying this and days sharing his knowledge about it with me. First I would like to say that "I do not boast of myself but I will boast of my God." (Alma 26:12) I am sharing what I have learned and my experiences because I love my God and I love my Savior. I cherish the knowledge that I have received from the Holy Ghost that Christ lives and that He is my personal Savior. And I do so with humility, love and respect.

The baptism of fire is also known as receiving the Holy Ghost or being spiritually reborn. The guide to the scriptures says: "To have the Spirit of the Lord causes a mighty change in a person’s heart so that he has no more desire to do evil, but rather desires to seek the things of God." Receiving the Holy Ghost or the baptism of fire is much more than the laying on of hands, Elder David A. Bednar says:"The Holy Ghost does not become operative in our lives merely because hands are placed upon our heads and those four important words are spoken. As we receive this ordinance, each of us accepts a sacred and ongoing responsibility to desire, to seek, to work, and to so live that we indeed “receive the Holy Ghost” and its attendant spiritual gifts."

Just because we have had hands placed on our head and received the Holy Ghost, it does not mean that, that gift is present in our lives, as Elder Bednar says. I do not share this to discount the laying on of hands or to make the ordinance seem "unnecessary" or "non important". I testify that the ordinance of the laying on of hands is essential and it is our duty to seek to obtain the gift of the Holy Ghost. I share this with the intent of helping others and myself be committed to seek the Holy Ghost continually in our lives, and for those who have not yet received this gift to give them the desire to seek it for themselves.

To help me explain what being baptized by fire is, I will use a few examples:

First, Alma the younger. He tells his son Helaman about his days when he was "seeking to destroy the church of God". Alma says that he was visited by an angel and as a result of that visitation, Alma was reminded of all his sins and iniquities. In his own words he says: (Alma 36:15-23)

15 Oh, thought I, that I could be banished and become extinct both soul and body, that I might not be brought to stand in the presence of my God, to be judged of my deeds.

16 And now, for three days and for three nights was I racked, even with the pains of a damned soul.

17 And it came to pass that as I was thus racked with torment, while I was harrowed up by the memory of my many sins, behold, I remembered also to have heard my father prophesy unto the people concerning the coming of one Jesus Christ, a Son of God, to atone for the sins of the world.

18 Now, as my mind caught hold upon this thought, I cried within my heart: O Jesus, thou Son of God, have mercy on me, who am in the gall of bitterness, and am encircled about by the everlasting chains of death.

19 And now, behold, when I thought this, I could remember my pains no more; yea, I was harrowed up by the memory of my sins no more.

20 And oh, what joy, and what marvelous light I did behold; yea, my soul was filled with joy as exceeding as was my pain!

21 Yea, I say unto you, my son, that there could be nothing so exquisite and so bitter as were my pains. Yea, and again I say unto you, my son, that on the other hand, there can be nothing so exquisite and sweet as was my joy.

22 Yea, methought I saw, even as our father Lehi saw, God sitting upon his throne, surrounded with numberless concourses of angels, in the attitude of singing and praising their God; yea, and my soul did long to be there.

23 But behold, my limbs did receive their strength again, and I stood upon my feet, and did manifest unto the people that I had been born of God. (Bold added)

The prophet Alma felt the pains of a dammed soul, he felt the sadness and frustration that we feel when we sin and when we feel like we can no longer bear the pains that sin brings. Alma plead with God for his forgiveness, he asked Jesus to redeem his soul. The answer to his prayer was the baptism of fire, he had a perfect knowledge that his sins had been forgiven and he felt exquisite joy because of this knowledge. Alma says that it was after this experience that he was born of God.

Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin shared an experience about the baptism of fire in a talk in April of 2003 titled "The Unspeakable Gift":

"A friend of mine once told me about his experience in coming to know and understand the gift of the Holy Ghost. He had prayed often and longed to know the truth of the gospel. Although he felt at peace with his beliefs, he had never received the certain knowledge for which he hungered. He had reconciled himself to the fact that he might be one of those who would have to walk through this life relying upon the faith of others. One morning, while pondering the scriptures, he felt something surge through his body from the top of his head to the bottom of his feet. “I was immersed in a feeling of such intense love and pure joy,” he explained. “I cannot describe the measure of what I felt at that time other than to say I was enveloped in joy so profound there was no room in me for any other sensation." Even as he felt this outpouring of the Holy Ghost, he wondered if possibly he was just imagining what was happening. “The more I wondered,” he said, “the more intense the feelings became until it was all I could do to tearfully say, ‘It is enough.’”

The feelings that this man felt were very similar to Alma's experience, he says he was enveloped with joy just like Alma was. I know that this feeling that came over him was the baptism of fire, I know that this is when a man can know if they have been forgiven of their sins, I know that through this experience this man grew closer to God and his Savior.

Elder Wirthlin says in the same talk:

"As with all gifts, this gift must be received and accepted to be enjoyed. When priesthood hands were laid upon your head to confirm you a member of the Church, you heard the words, “Receive the Holy Ghost.” This did not mean that the Holy Ghost unconditionally became your constant companion. Scriptures warn us that the Spirit of the Lord will “not always strive with man.” When we are confirmed, we are given the right to the companionship of the Holy Ghost, but it is a right that we must continue to earn through obedience and worthiness. We cannot take this gift for granted."

I know that as we seek to have this spirit, as we seek, study and obey we can be baptized by fire and make the Holy Ghost our constant companion. The reception of the Holy Ghost IS the baptism of fire. I know that if a person has already received the holy Ghost, they can still strive continually to be baptized by fire and continue in their quest of keeping the Holy Ghost in their lives. Alma said: "And now behold, I say unto you, my brethren, if ye have experienced a change of heart, and if ye have felt to sing the song of redeeming love, I would ask, can ye feel so now?" (Alma 5:26) Those who have been baptized by fire and had their very nature changed, it is their duty to retain the baptism of fire and "feel so" forever.

To finish I would like to share an experience that changed my life forever.

At the beginning of the year 2013 I had decided I was going to serve a full-time mission for my church. I was preparing to turn my mission papers in and all I needed was to decide on an availability date. My plan was to spend all summer at home having fun and when summer was over and all the fun I could have was had, I would leave on a mission to serve God. I thought it was a great plan. One day as I was studying the scriptures and watching a video about missionaries I had an unexplicable urge to pray. I knelt down and began pouring my soul to my Heavenly Father, I explained my plan, I explained the yearning I had to serve Him. As I prayed, I felt the most wonderful peace, love and happiness. Though these are all very common feelings, there were intensified, I had never that love, that happiness and that peace in my entire life. In that moment I received a perfect knowledge that God was my Father, I knew that Jesus Christ truly was my personal Savior.

I not only felt, but KNEW that I had been forgiven of my sins and that I was clean and worthy to take upon me the responsibility to represent my Savior. Because of the knowledge I had received I felt an urge to serve God, I felt that it was unnecessary to wait any longer to serve my God and my Savior. Because of this experience I decided to make my availability date April (a month and a half from the date of this experience.) I know that what I experienced at that moment was the baptism of fire, it came with knowledge, it came with a remission of sins, it came with a change of heart and a change of nature. The baptism of fire made me "spiritually minded" I no longer wanted to do what was pleasing to me, but I wanted to do what was pleasing to God. I know that this baptism of fire was a gift from God, little wonder that we call it the gift of the Holy Ghost.

I know that in order to live with God again we must fill our lives with the Holy Ghost. I know that it is our quest to become more like our Father in Heaven and our Savior Jesus Christ. I testify that the very thing that will bring us closer to Him and change our nature is the baptism of fire. I urge ALL who read this post to seek the baptism of fire again in their lives. If you have felt it recently, seek more. If you've had this experience, I ask with the prophet Alma "can ye feel so now?". If you have never had this experience, if you have never felt this, I plead with you to seek it. I testify that it is one of the greatest gifts that God can give a mortal man/woman. I do not consider myself an expert scriptorian by any means, but I suggest the following "steps" as we seek the baptism of fire and seek to have the Holy Ghost in our lives.

1. Read from the scriptures every single day. Seek for knowledge. Seek for answers. Seek to know your Savior better.

2. Repent daily. Seek forgiveness for your wrong doings, seek for the redeeming power of the Atonement. Humbly pray unto Christ for the remission of your sins.

3. Pray with all the energy of your heart and ask for the spirit, ask Heavenly Father to "baptize you with fire" to make His spirit a part of your life. (Moroni 7:48)

4. Seek to always do His will.

I seek a change of heart, I seek for a change in my nature, I seek to have the experience that made Alma say that he was born of God (Alma 36:15-23). I seek the experience Enos had after praying ALL day long for forgiveness (Enos 1:4-8). I seek the experience the entire people of King Benjamin had that made them plead for forgiveness and desire to be born of God (Alma 5:2). I seek to have the experience that made a KING be willing to give up his entire kingdom just to experience this mighty change to be able to know God, when in days previous this very king was only willing to give up half of his kingdom in exchange for his life (Alma 20:23, 22:15).

I know that this is the only way I can live a happy life, a life that is filled with the Spirit of God and a life that my Heavenly Father wants me to have. I testify God lives, I know with all the assurance and energy of my heart and being that Jesus is the Christ, and that this King of King lives! We have a living Savior,a Savior who stands triumphant over death, a Savior who loves.

I seek the Holy Ghost to become like Him.

"For the natural man is an enemy to God, and has been from the fall of Adam, and will be, forever and ever, unless he yields to the enticings of the Holy Spirit, and putteth off the natural man and becometh a saint through the atonement of Christ the Lord, and becometh as a child, submissive, meek, humble, patient, full of love, willing to submit to all things which the Lord seeth fit to inflict upon him, even as a child doth submit to his father." (Mosiah 3:19)

His Atonement is Infinite

Last night we received a text from someone in our ward asking us to substitute for their class, they teach in the primary (the group the children belong to) and we said yes. Today, a comment from a child made me remember a principle that truly made my love for Christ grow even stronger. We were talking about worshipping at church and the importance of listening, praying, singing and partaking of the sacrament. One of the students raised their hand and asked: "Does Jesus still love my dad even though he doesn't come to church?" That was when I remembered studying the scriptures and learning about Christ and His infinite and perfect love for EVERYONE. I told the child with all the assurance in my heart that Jesus did love her father. This comment during class today is what urged me to write this post. I testify that Christ is not a respecter of persons, He is perfect and loves every single one of us perfectly without condition. Christ is able to love so perfectly because He suffered for us personally, He is the only one that has a perfect knowledge of our trials, our feelings, our fears, and our hopes.

All mankind was doomed, we needed a sacrifice that would save us, that would make us "at one" with God, that would reconcile us with the Father. If there was no sacrifice made, every time we would sin or do something offensive in God's eyes, the separation between man and God would grow bigger and bigger and nothing would be able to close that gap. "For it is expedient that there should be a great and last sacrifice; yea, not a sacrifice of man, neither of beast, neither of any manner of fowl; for it shall not be a human sacrifice; but it must be an infinite and eternal sacrifice...And behold, this is the whole meaning of the law, every whit pointing to that great and last sacrifice; and that great and last sacrifice will be the Son of God, yea, infinite and eternal." (Alma 33:10,14)

The Infinite Atonement of Jesus Christ is what allowed me to answer with such assurance to that child in class today. I know for myself that because Christ paid the ultimate price, because he suffered for every single person who lived, lives and will live on this earth, there is absolutely nothing we can do to make Him not love us. I urge anyone that believes they are "too far gone" or "too far from the path" to allow your Savior Jesus Christ reach out to you and show you His love. I urge anyone who feels like it is "too late" to repent and come back to Christ to kneel down and pray to God and Jesus Christ for help, ask them to make their love evident in your life once more. I believe that God is a perfect parent, Christ said:"Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone? Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent? If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?" (Matthew 7:9-11) I know that if we but ask God to make us feel closer to Him and feel His love and our Savior's love, that He will grant that unto anyone who asks.

I know that God listens, I know that He lives and that Jesus Christ is His son. I know that God loves us so much that He sent His son Jesus Christ to save us from falling, to bring us closer when we have drifted away, to fill in the gap when we have created one because of sin. Christ performed the Atonement, an infinite Atonement. There is absolutely nothing we can do, no decision we can make that will make Christ's love unreachable or unattainable.

"Because He lives, he, she, us, them, we, can all live again. Because of Him death has no sting, the grave no victory. We can start again and again and again. Because of Him guilt becomes peace, regret becomes relief, despair becomes hope. Because of Him we have second chances, clean slates, new beginnings. There is no such thing as the end."

Quote from "Because of Him video" found on YouTube. URL: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S3TI4bYerU

We cannot live without light

I have always had a Christian foundation, I learned who Christ was at a very young age. I grew in my knowledge of Christ as I grew older and attended church and read the scriptures, I established a relationship with Him as I served as a missionary for my church. I consider myself very blessed to have always had a knowledge that I have a Savior and really cannot imagine life without that knowledge.

On my mission I met a young man who was from the country of China and there he had heard about Christians and that we believed in a man who was called Jesus. As we talked about Jesus Christ, his desire to learn more about Him and his relationship with Christ also increased. One day, in one of our "meetings" or "lessons" we wanted him to find out for himself that Christ was not only the Savior of the world, but that Christ was HIS personal Savior and that Christ loved Him personally. We knew this knowledge would change his life completely.

As we taught this young man, we shared that Christ was a light in our lives and that with Him everything became more hopeful and more bearable. We read the following scripture about Christ that is found in Mosiah 16:9 in the Book of Mormon: "He is the light and the life of the world; yea, a light that is endless, that can never be darkened; yea, and also a life which is endless, that there can be no more death." Then we asked: "What do you understand from this scripture about Jesus Christ" and he responded with words that changed my life and helped solidify my personal relationship with Christ: "We cannot live without light".

Even though his knowledge of Christ was still new and maybe not as clear, he understood the most fundamental truth, just as we cannot live without light, we cannot live without Jesus Christ. I know that the simple statement he was able to share with us is absolutely true, I could not live without Christ in my life. Sure, we can still get around a dark room, sure, we can manage to turn on a little flash light as a temporary solution, but how different would it be to flip on a light switch and let light flood a room?

I know that Christ is our light. Just as an obstacle-filled room wouldn't magically change and be obstacle-free when the light came on, our lives won't magically change and be challenge-free when we rely on Christ, but He will make all challenges bearable. He invites us to let Him help us He says: "Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." (Matthew 11:28-30) I know that if we but trust in Christ, believe in Him and most importantly love Him, that our life truly will be filled with light and He will help us bear our burdens.

100% responsibility means 100% control

One of the biggest lessons I was taught on my mission was the principle of responsibility and the blessing of agency. We have been given agency to be able to choose, not only to choose right from wrong but to be able to be in control of our lives. With the gift of agency we can choose to be happier, be better and most importantly we can choose to be responsible.

One of the most life changing teachings I have received came from Elder Lynn G. Robbins from the presidency of the Seventy, he is a general authority for the Church of Jesus Christ of latter-day Saints. He taught that we can only have complete control of our lives if we choose to be responsible for all our actions. For example, when we hurt someone's feelings the responsible thing to do is apologizing, when we apologize, we are accepting that we have done something wrong and we are assuming responsibility for our actions. If we weren't to apologize, we will give power to the issue by allowing it to make us feel remorse, maybe sadness and the matter will weigh in our minds, it won't allow us to be happy; there is where we lose control and we allow an issue to control us.

Another example can be a reverse situation where we are the ones who have been hurt and are saddened, angered or frustrated because of the matter. The only way that we will be in control of the situation is if we forgive. Forgiving others can have a healing effect, but most importantly it allows us to have control over our lives. We can choose to forgive even when the person who hurt us hasn't apologized. If we forgive we are choosing to take control, it is not a sign of weakness, rather it empowers us as we take control of our thoughts and feelings instead of letting the issue consume our thoughts and lead us to more anger. This concept is so hard for me to put into words, but simply put, if we choose to apologize, forgive, love, be patient, etc. We will feel like we are in control of our lives, instead of letting arguments, stress, fatigue, etc. dictate our mood and how we feel.

We can choose to be in control, we can choose to be happy, we can choose to be better. We were given agency to have power over ourselves, to "act for [ourselves] and not to be acted upon" (2 Nephi 2:26), to choose to become like Christ little by little. I am grateful for the opportunity to choose, I am grateful for the knowledge I have that I can be in control of my life. I have chosen to be more like my Savior, I have chosen to love Him and serve Him. I truly know that Christ lives, I know that he will help us choose and He will help us be in control of our lives. He is the ultimate source of strength, light and perfect love.